attractive to a potential suitor. so if you been with a lot of people you are NASTY!!! Do you know that DNA from every Man U sleep with gets in your blood and stays in it for a very long time? But to think you cant find anyone compatible with you is B-S. People use the word perfect as an excuse to not have to live up to any expectations. And, it will happen. How detailed you can get depends on how much your lover can take. He is happy, so should the number hold that much power and the relationship end? Nothing sums it up better, I wish I could sit down and heave beer with you. Sometimes its just not about judgement of the person its about hurting a future partners feelings. My personally opinion, 10 partners in a lifetime for men and women should be enough. I would find disgusting to kiss a woman of that kind. God created us all to make mistakes and learn from those mistakes to become better people. idc if im broke or rich or how your feel in a bed room or how i look its my intellect that should make u be willing to be with me or my compassion or my intentive attitude towards you when a women has a mutiple relations with different men she has a lot of comparision to the man she is involved with and then women wonder why the are single mothers? So what if she runs across someone she slept with in the past? Report. Or cheated or whatever. Lastly all should value themselves because at the end of the day it is best for all to wait (though many of us struggle with it), so dont just put that on women. Its not like they grew up thinking they will screw as many guys as they can, get married, and live happily ever after. So many women who have waited seem to not be as open minded. Wouldnt you want Exactly act like a slut then oh now i want a good man. When we dont heal from our past and address our issues we will likely set ourselves up fro more problems later. The choices you make in life matter and have consequences. And I really dont care if you feel sorry for me or not. Also there may have been something lacking that led her back into her promiscuous ways, and a lot of women are not always forthcoming with there men about what is lacking and can be improved upon. See I do not expect for anybody to be with someone that does not share some of the same core values that they have. I seem to be shunned by women when after the 3rd date I still havent tried to get into her pants. I feel most people focus on the physical aspect of sex but overlook the mental and emotional aspect which plays an even bigger role in how good the sex can be. Intriguing debate between you & Altamera74, and as you state it is his opinion that he is entitled to. Sleeping around might be related to testosterone in both sexes. Marriage is a serious commitment intended to last a lifetime. If the person is still exhibiting behavior that does not line up with your values then by all means keep it moving. Your email address will not be published. Thank you for sharing that Justina I really appreciate your willingness to do that. Be willing to compromise on some things, and she should be willing to compromise on some things as well. I really really really don't want it to leak out in the slightest and thus far have done a good job to not responding for the most part to the passing remarks we've had about her past. I hit the cutoff line at 5 MAX. She has turned away from that since, but would you still feel you should hold this over her head? The fact is men behave like sluts because women allow them to. How can that be true when most divorces end for financial reasons?Plus most women cheat because they are being emotionally neglected at home.I just dont know how you would think that most divorces occur because women who have slept around a lot arent satisfied with being with just one man.Where did this all come from? Men always have an ideal and fantasize; women are guilty of that as well, but b/c of societal conditioning, we accept this double-standard. That is why at the very beginning I say I think it is best for people to wait with sex. My message is simple, life and relationships require truth. We are called to Love, but how can we do that if we allow ourselves to judge and demonize others for their past decisions. In fact, white middle-class college-educated women in their twenties are widely recognized by researchers to have more sex partners than any other group of women; the 1995 National Survey of Family Growth reports that women in these three categories (of race, income and education) have the highest proportions of four or more partners over their lifetimes (39).https://karmak.org/archive/2002/10/portrait.html. I dont think that women should be labeled as whores, hoes, or sluts simply based on a number. If youre honest more than likely you wouldnt. old.) In this life, moral responsibility will offer you far, far more than even being able to regain what you may have lost, even following reconciliation. God did not create us to be WHORES, and I am referring to both Men and Women. You dont get to judge. If a guy was to meet me he would never guess my number is so high because its all about how I carry myself. It is difficult for women like that to pair-bond. Its an individual thing as to how they perceive themselves. honestly your vagina doesnt really strech out till you have a baby. That's what these things do. Men are not exempt! Macho-ism still exists. To ride is free. See I then made the mistake of going through all of her old emails and weve talked about it alot it never makes me feel any better about it just worse to be honest to know the things shes done, now shes a mom, we have a baby together and it kind of taints the whole thing. I think it would be best for everybody to wait or minimize how many people they have sex with, but that does not change the fact that we should not judge a woman based on her past. All is equal and fair. Is it the number of acts, the number of partners, or the types of acts? Personally, I think that men and women should strive to have a lower number of sexual partners but I don't think that women should try to act like men in the thinking that having numerous partners is a good thing. Thank you, Lord, for writing my name in Your Lambs Book of Life and sealing me with Your Holy Spirit! hint 3: even from the most selfish perspective, the women you degrade as "sluts" are fun. HOLD ON TO THE SPIRIT OF JESUS CHRIST. We have had this conversation. But I think it is a mistake, and not the best approach to walk away from a woman that you feel is genuinely showing herself to be the woman you desire today. It is perfectly fair to judge someone based on the choices they make. I am coming from a place that is old-minded and is small island, so something like dis should spoil your name and make u feel embarassed even if for you wasnt that big deal.. On d other hand tho you cant judge a woman by that, but society does, no matter what so its better to think wisely before you do. Some women can be a virgin and have all kinds of issues due to other experiences in their life, while a woman may have once been promiscuous, turned away from that and now is in a much better place mentally and emotionally. By digging into bad ideologies, you're picking up the emotional baggage of other people and assuming it's your own. Your comment finally got past moderation and was improved. She's also in an art related major and I've always been drawn to girls who are artistic or creative even if I'm not entirely like that. Just look at them in the same light. Stephen are u being real? Men are perfectly within their rights, when choosing a mate to spend the rest of their lives with and mother their children, to choose a women who is not only kind and intelligent, but also has not lived a life full of promiscuity and whorish behavior. cant hold it against the woman I love. Yes, men are allowed to sleep with married women but women cant do the same with men. I was horrified but because I did not want to be judgmental and because we were already together I stuck it out. All of the real "Studs" that I know in real life have a lot of sexual conquests, but they are now in their late 30's and 40's, alone, and miserable. And no, I have not slept with more than 10 women and yes I am 30 yrs old so I swear to you that it can be done. Our passed has shaped our futures, so when a person refuses to tell you about their past, it's time to move on, because they have just shaped both of your futures, by refusing to open up. No, it can most certainly simply be about the actual number. My question ishow well do you believe your clever and sincere explanation will hold up while trying to explain it to Him personally? It's a case of attraction. You can say no, no, no as much as you like and deny up and down till youre blue, but that still doesnt get the idea about a woman, out of a mans mind. Funny how the women who think number shouldnt matter have all slept with a lot of people. I appear to have acquired a stalker. Folks need to grow up and kill all the judgement as if they are walking perfection. We got married 6 month ago and we are super happy. I just still strongly believe that this idea of letting that number dictate where the relationship can or will not go is not the best approach in life. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. And dont assume that the men who play arent still looking for a relationship but last time I checked, the feel of a women is a helluva lot different than a hand job at midnight and will therefore satisfy that itch while they find the one. The number doesn't matter if you are a strong and confident alpha. Some people just dont deal with relationships well. Education can do wonders! I didn't feel all that special when it came to making love. Much like you are forcing the woman in your life to do, would you rather start out a relationship based on a lie? I will not look down upon people who do not agree with this, I just genuinely feel that they may not be taking the best approach. Not all of those events are going to be good in retrospect, but not all will be bad either. Your notions of beta this and slut that are so divorced from reality where do I begin. Men like to know what theyre investing in is rare. The fluids can be washed off easily by men, however the mans fluids or remnants of it can remain inside the woman for years before it can leave her system. I am available to help have the discussion. 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